I feel positive and hopeful at the moment, and I hope it prevails. At a time like this, I’d like to share a story that helps me at dark times to get up from where I fall ( If I remember it)…
Note: This story is not my invention. I don’t remember where I first heard it from. But I hold onto it as a very positive thought I like to ponder on now and then. I am not a very good storyteller, but let me try:….
Once there was an island that rested in a vast ocean. Lets say this island was called “Isle”. Around Isle, there were lots of other islands very nearby. Nobody lived in this area, it was all barren lands. Seaweeds grew on one island, and they spread forming a mesh over all the islands near it. So soon, Isle was covered with seaweed too.
Then one day, a farmer came to this area. He saw Isle and noticed..something about it was special. This island, as he noticed, had potential. He went back to get his tools and came back. He thought Isle had potential in its soil where other islands in that area didn’t. So the farmer first cut off all the weeds around Isle.
Isle felt isolated. It was cut out from it’s friends (the other islands). The seaweeds did make it feel miserable, but now it just felt so lonely and it made Isle more miserable. What did the farmer want?
As if cutting off the weeds and isolating Isle wasn’t enough, the farmer started plowing and digging on Isle. Riding his tractor and flattening it. It hurt Isle, it was pure torture. The spades and the tractor hurt Isle every night and day, it was being tortured beyond reason. “ Why ? Why? Why? Why was the farmer attacking me?” Isle though helplessly. Isle had no idea why she was so unfairly tortured rather than the other islands.
But then after all those nights of loneliness and misery, a single small little plant grew on Isle. The farmer had started watering Isle each day. And soon, Isle was filled with plants, flowers and trees…and after sometime, animals and grass. Isle wasn’t only having company, but Isle shined out from the rest of the seaweed-filled islands around her. Isle was beautiful and brilliant, with BETTER companions who benefited her and she could mutually benefit them in return. The farmer was right; Isle was special and now everyone envied her. Singing birds animals, plants and the farmer, Isle had lots of wonderful friends too.
So what is the moral of this story? Here it is:
Isle had no idea why she was isolated, then tortured. Lots of times in life, we all face unfair treatment, isolation and then when you feel like it cannot get worse, you face torture upon your misery.
But like Isle, could it be that we don’t realize that we are being built? That we are being tested and nurtured, undergoing a huge change for something brighter and brilliant? Yeah Isle was just an island, but likewise, we are only humans, another existence this world created by a higher power.
“Verily We created man from a product of wet earth; then placed him as a drop (of seed) in a safe lodging; then We fashioned the drop into a clot, then We fashioned the clot into a little lump, then We fashioned the little lump into bones, then clothed the bones with flesh, and then produced it another creation. So blessed be Allah, the Best of Creators!” [23:12-14]
And there is a lot going on in the world, so many things we cannot see or touch or understand… but as hard as it is to accept, it might be for a bigger better reason in the end, it’s just a matter of how you perceive it later..and it is a blessing to not know and still be patient.
The loneliness: what if Isle had been left with the weeds? Would the plants the flowers and the trees and grass all grow so beautifully still? Would she have had the peace, the satisfaction, or the cheerfulness that surrounded her? No it wouldn’t be so. But Isle didn’t understand that back then. It only registered how lonely it was.
Such is our minds…
We might get lonely, or get cut off from people, get ridiculed, teased, abused or isolated. Might it be that we are forced to leave them, get away from them, so that we can become better people? So that we get better companions? So that we find happiness in other better ways? Note that as intelligent humans are, it has its limits. We really do not know what is good for us, because unlike the farmer who stands up on the island and sees below, the laid out earth may not see a bit further ahead.
What is to happen beyond this point in life is not in our knowledge, and what had come to pass, we might never understand why, but it all happened for a reason. Its just a matter of time and the freedom of your own mind to understand that. Be comfortable with not knowing why things happen, but content with the One who causes them. Trust Allah.
For one who wants to seek guidance, you may find guidance in the most strangest of places. Be it in fiction. Allah is so Merciful He scattered haqq everywhere, so that the seeker finds truth in something ugly or something beautiful.
Just like how musk is in the lower genitals of the doe, how ambergris comes from the stomach of whales, something beautiful maybe hidden in an unexpected place.
Like how Morpheus says: “Neo, sooner or later you’re going to realize, just as I did, that there’s a difference between knowing the path and walking the path”
The trick is to keep your heart, open to Allah.
So no matter what we go through, we have a choice to mold it in our minds in anyway we want given the power to believe in it. The power of a human mind, is still a mysterious wonder that has so many unexplored corners in it.And Allah has given us guides, and shown us in every aspect of life how our journey is made so much more easier, and nothing that is deprived of blessing, be it intelligence, will avail any benefit…and do not forget your heart. so why should we choose the hard path, ignorance or our own destruction, by ourselves against us?
Pain is never easy to forget, and one way or another, everyone goes through it. Then again…after a while all we’ll know is that we DID feel pain..but we forget what it actually felt like…such are the ways our minds are programmed. And Allah is able of all things.
Found in: 110 Ahadith Qudsi (Sacred Hadith)
Hadith no: 37
Narrated: Anas
that Allah’s Messenger (PBUH) said: One of the most miserable people in the world will be brought from among the people of Paradise. Allah will say (to the angels): Dip him once in Paradise. So they will dip him once in it. Then Allah (SWT) will ask him: Did you ever face any distress or a thing you hate. He would say: No, by Your Glory! Never did I face anything unpleasant. Then one of the most affluent people of the world will be brought from Hell. Allah will command (the angels:) Dip him once in it. Then He will ask him: 0 son of Adam! Did you ever enjoy any comfort? (that is, a dip in Hell can make one forget the meaning of comfort). (This Hadith is sound and reported in Musnad Ahmad).
Its all a matter of how you see it, how you reflect back, look into yourself, realizations of truth and reality… makes you a winner or a loser.
We all have our part to play in this world, we had the potential to survive it, so we are here to live. And whether we make our character a villian, a comedian or a hero, we have been given the choice. Whoever desires this world, he shall have it. Whoevere desires what would not perish and remain forever, he shall have it.
And no person can ever die except by Allah’s Leave and at an appointed term. And whoever desires a reward in (this) world, We shall give him of it; and whoever desires a reward in the Hereafter, We shall give him thereof. And We shall reward the grateful. (3:145)
Its bigger than me or you, we are all a part of something bigger, its bigger than our problems, our lives, which changes, keeps changing and its easy to realize that when you free your soul enough to soar up and look down in bird-eye view at everything around you.
Its all a matter of believing and faith…to be commenced into reality with actions.
So turn your gaze upwards, and keep on walking O traveller
Your Guide will guide you and He will lead you
What comfort it is to know you are an ignorant passenger
Let go and give up, submit and give in, To Him To Him To Him
Oh ignorant traveler
Who is indebted forever and in love with the One driving you
Look at the stars above you, since they were created the North star has remained
To show the way and adorn as lights that doesn’t require your maintaining
Oh ignorant passenger, depend on the One who drives you to your abode
Who else is better as a Trustee, Who else is better to depend on
And He isn’t comparable to anyone
So be tranquil with haqq O souls, soar towards Your Lord
Please Him and seek every nook and cranny to find Him
Close your eyes and say; He says “Kun” and its “Fayakun”
I hope I remember and am reminded when I slip…